what makes a homosexual queer?
by Douglas Messerli
David Wilson (screenplay), Peter Tyler Boullata and Jean-François
Monette (directors) Anatomy of Desire / 1995
Today we take a great deal of pride in
defining and openly expressing our sexuality, particularly LGBTQ individuals.
We are proud for being lesbians, gay men, transsexual or transgender
individuals. And often we define ourselves in the world very strongly through
our relationships to our sexuality and gender.
The
definition of homosexuals matters, of course, in determining whether or not it
can be defined by the brain. Can something in the brain then be detected to
describe this historically sexual behavior, to define such forms of
bisexuality?
The film begins with a brief discussion with neurologist Simon LeVay,
who at the time this documentary was made (1995), had developed the thesis that
within the hypothalamus of the brain he found homosexuals to have smaller
gatherings of cell clusters than heterosexual men.
And
for many gay men and women of the day—and one might add many still today—the
idea that their sexuality was defined at birth is an important issue in
establishing that their behavior is not controllable or changeable, which might
encourage others to realize that their behavior is not “inverted” or
“perverted” or different much like one’s gender or the color of one’s skin.
Certainly, at the time before the abandonment of laws against homosexuality and
at a time when gays were still unable to marry, this seemed like a step forward
for recognition of their equality just as women and blacks had fought for their
rights. In other words, for many it became a political matter.
And
as June Reinisch, from the Kinsey Institute, argues, we still don’t know what
causes heterosexual behavior. If we were to knew that, then it would far easier
to demonstrate what is behind homosexual actions.
Certainly, the post-World War II reaction against Hirschfeld’s notions further prove that point. An entire new generation of psychotherapists grew up after the way, many of the theorists having escaped from Germany to the US, developing an entirely opposite view of homosexual behavior that was based on how we developed as children and young adults. Using some of the concepts of Freud’s theories about absent father and domineering mothers, psychologists now argued not only that homosexuality was a disease, but was a curable one, if one really wanted to change and was willing to pay a psychiatrist to help him or her make that change. Accordingly, homosexuality continued to be listed by the medical establishment as an unnatural disease.
It
was startling to hear Duberman describe how all the young gay well-educated men
with whom he was connected believed to a man that they had some sort of
characterological disorder, were basically unhappy with their “condition” and
sought out psychiatrists. He relates how at one point as part of the therapy he
was forced to abandon his lover, given the view that homosexual “acting out”
(the way sex was described) was to relieve the anxiety. The only to get to the
root of that anxiety was to give up “the acting out,” when tension would
develop and the patient would be forced to face it and resolve the problem.
The
film goes on to mention even more horrific forms of educative methods such as
shock therapy and neurological operations. All of these forms, in the long run,
have been shown to be ineffective, and that any changes in the patient who
often attained only in an attempt to please the physiologist or with
significant psychological damage, resulting in depression or worse. There is no
evidence that such treatments can change one’s sexual orientation, argues one
commentator.
Duberman goes on the mention that there were a very few psychoanalysts
who disagreed with these theories of homosexuality, but no research was done
and they were considered primarily as mavericks.
Growing up near end of this era in 1950s and early 1960s, I myself begin
to explore psychological reasons for my own still-hidden sexual urges, creating
what were clearly fictional explanations about my father and mother to explain
my desires. There seemed to be no other way in which one could explore one’s
feelings since we had no history of other explanations at that time.
As
the picture expresses it, however, “then something happened to shatter the
complacency of American society.” Alfred Kinsey’s reports suddenly showed us,
regarding male sexuality, that a very large percentage of self-defined
heterosexual males had had, at least one time in their lives, sex with other
men, and that a large portion of those individuals who described as being
homosexual had had sex with a woman. Moreover, there were high percentages of
both heterosexual and homosexual individuals who had had same experiences far
more often. In short, Kinsey returned us, in his real-life studies as opposed
to those theoretically-based, that there are a large range of sexual experiences
of all sorts in which individuals fell. There were, in fact, relatively few
individuals who were simply one or the other, just as we now are discovering
about gender. What had been wrong about our thinking is that we had not
accounted for the very diversity of human experience when it comes to
sexuality.
Kinsey’s revelations as well as the increasing political rise of the
young through the 1960s eventually brought about the far more engaged and
committed homosexual and transgender communities which finally forced the
police to stop the raids of gay and lesbian bars through Stonewall, and begin
the long, very long voyage the LGBTQ+ community has made since then.
The
narrator suggests that scientists once more began to explore a biological
explanation, focusing on how our genes affect us not only with regard to gender
but to sex as well. But as Reinisch again reminds us the either/or paradigm
disregards the fact that environment and nature are completely intertwined,
that growing up in a certain environment affects the biology of any growing
being. She argues that it is 100% environment and 100% nature simultaneously. Richard
Green (The Sissy Syndrome) points to other facts; for example, that
children are simply not all the same, some being more aggressive and assertive
than others, while some are more aesthetic and passive. If you have a boy who’s
more passive and interesting in doll-playing than aggressive, that boy’s
relationship with his mother and father will be different than another’s as
well as connections to his siblings and peer group. It may then become a kind
of socialization tract that as a boy gets on that helps to define his behavior
and also influences his later sexual orientation.
Richard Pittard points to another fascinating experiment. Ken Zucker
took pictures of effeminately behaving boys, who Pittard argues, we know will
in a larger proportion turn out to be gay men. He mixed in with these pictures
of others, typical masculine-behaving boys, and showed them to judges, asking
them to pick which ones were the “cutest, prettiest, or handsomest.” The
selectors chose almost exclusively the effeminate-behaving boys. What this
suggests is not at all clear. Are there other genetic factors that make gay
boys into prettier or more handsome men? We have all heard women say, why are
all the most beautiful men gay? Of course, much of this depends upon what
societally we learn to perceive as beauty and, obviously, upon who these
selectors were and how they were chosen. In short, when one enters into the
world of homosexuality, one enters a maze of confusing contradictions.
Reinisch takes us back to reality, moreover, by reminding us that
homosexuals come in all types, that there is no one defining characterization
that can be applied to the range of men or women who define that sexual
definition.
Paula
A. Treichler argues against the notion that any definition of feminine or
masculine, male or female, sex or gender has anything to tell us about sexual
orientation. Any attempt to define homosexuality, insists another commentator,
is not in order to understand it but to either incriminate it or excuse it.
Accordingly, the whole medical attempt to define sexuality is basically
dangerous in that we have to ask what the different forces are going to do with
our understanding.
This film, produced in a time when the rewards of the political efforts
were not yet known, accordingly becomes an important summation of the various
pushes and pulls of the scientific community regarding these important matters
up until the mid-1990s. But finally, this film argues that the scientific
community will not provide those answers, that it is the political struggle
that truly matters whether or not there is tolerance and understanding of the
many differences we have learned human beings express.
What this work and others like it continue to make clear to me is
precisely why it is so difficult in several films, coded and otherwise, to
point clearly to an individual and explain why I perceive him or her to be of
LGBTQ interest. As Kinsey intimated, human beings themselves are normal only in
their very queerness. What we describe as normal is simply a manner of behavior
that the society has agreed to aspire to as opposed it its real everyday
actions.
Los Angeles, March 5, 2023
Reprinted from World Cinema Review (March
2023).
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