ghosts
by Douglas Messerli
Andrew Haigh (screenwriter, based on Strangers
by Taichi Yamada, and director) All of Us Strangers / 2023
In this new film, two men alone seem to inhabited the towers of a new London high rise, a tower block—not so very different from the isolated world in which the hero of Weekend lived. But here, instead of regular tenants or even friends who might possibly surround him, the central figure, Adam (Andrew Scott) has no one to console him in his more than morose condition. He meets, quite by accident, the only other renter in the empty towers, Harry (Paul Mescal) who recognizes Adam as a possible sexual friend who approaches him, a bottle of tequila in hand, to suggest they might get together, if for no other reason than to escape the utter emptiness of the new apartment buildings and, metaphorically, of course, the emptiness of both of their lives.
Adam, although clearly interested, basically shuts him out, preferring
instead, at this strange juncture of his life—and it is clear is a juncture, a
long-awaited moment in which he has suddenly discovered himself—wherein in this
utter loneliness he is ready to confront his childhood and his painful past.
Throughout most of this film, Adam imaginatively, so we presume,
revisits his parents, now almost their own age, returning to a world of the
1970s and 1980s to his truly loving young folks who, at first, readily greet
him back into their lives, happy to have him return and explain what has
happened in since their deaths—perhaps to even explain their own deaths and
possible suffering of which they have no knowledge.
The parents, amazingly, are a lovely 1970s couple, open to his emotional
needs, and as time progresses even able to assimilate his announcement of his
gay sexuality, his mother primarily worried about the loneliness it might
result in, Adam assuring her things have changed. His father basically able to
accept it even apologizes for any bullying his son must have suffered through
his friends and his own attitudes.
The movie, meanwhile, proceeds as if he is living in the contemporary
world, as he finally meets up with Harry, joining him at a gay bar where they
share drugs before joining one another in bed and developing a relationship.
That relationship, however, seems rather one-sided, with Harry providing the
friendship while Adam continues in his visits of his childhood home where his
parents still reside (actually the childhood home of director Haigh), and at
one point a kind of breakdown, which Harry attempts to resolve.
The visits into the past suggest something different: a man obsessed
with his difficult past that doesn’t permit him escape from it. Even his
parents—particularly when he crawls into bed with them, a full adult still
attempting to resolve his suffering through their deaths—insist that it is time
he leaves them, arguing that he should return to the “Harry” guy whom they, as
ghosts, encounter when Adam attempts to take Harry on one of his returns “home”—this
time Adam
Even Adam’s subconscious, in short, tries to tell him that he must
return to the living, finally ridding himself of his ghosts. But we already
suspect that he cannot. And we gradually realize his numerous sexual encounters
with Harry are also imaginary.
When he finally does settle with his own past, and visits Harry at his
apartment, the smell of death is overpowering. As Adam enters the room he
discovers his “imaginary” lover dead, the bottle of Tequila he had in had on
the first night, some weeks ago, still in hand.
He is now confronted with a new ghost, who tells him that the night they
first met he desperately needed a friend, Adam perhaps finally realizing that
he has failed him in the present, busy as he was with his own past.
But hardly a beat goes on before Adam embraces his dead love, taking him
back to his own room to gently assure him he will now never be alone. Clearly,
Adam is used to living with dead folks, able to embrace them in a love which he
can never properly direct to anyone living. Indeed, by film’s end we have to
wonder whether Adam is himself a ghost.
Haigh’s emotionally powerful film ultimately is not about human beings
expressing their deep feelings of love, but about the dead, and how the living
imagine they might possibly have provided them what they were missing. I can
hardly imagine any LGBTQ person not confronting a dead parent in their attempt
to once more explain their lives, to help their parents, their loved
It is difficult, accordingly, to watch a human being who encounters even
a living human being desperately needing love whom he rejects because they were
too busy focusing on an exculpatory world of the past. This is Narcissus,
looking into the frozen rivers of ice, not a welcoming being who pretends to
invite the lover into his dark bed. Ghosts are not a comfort for those who need
love in order to survive.
And in that sense, I was not comforted by the “strangers” of Haigh’s new
movie. As film critic Donald Melville Wingrove commented, despite its excellent
reception, “I was underwhelmed by this film”
Los Angeles, February 10, 2024
Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (February
2024).
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