Andy Newbery | Heartstopper (Seasons 3) / 2024

expressions of love

by Douglas Messerli

 

Alice Oseman (screenplay), Andy Newbery (director) Heartstopper (Season 3) / 2024

 

After two seasons of wonderful introductions of the characters to one another which resulted in love and the discovery of the possibilities that it represented, suddenly in Season 3, we meet up, just a little, with reality.

    The first episode of the season appeared to be the perfect opportunity for love to be promoted, all the central characters let loose on a day-trip to the beach. Elle and Tao can hardly keep their hands off one another, but even that seems slightly troubling to the transgender woman who realizes that Tao’s love is obviously obsessive. Ever since Darcy has moved in with Tara, it’s been a full-time chore to not only live up to their expectations of their relationship, but to deal with the daily existence of another in your life at 17 or 18, not quite what you might have expected at such at such early age, and Tara wonders how she might make it clear to her lover that it might be better to move in with her open-minded and totally receptive aunt, particularly given Darcy’s mother’s absolute rejection.

     Charlie is determined, but as always terrified in the process, to express to Nick that he truly loves him, fearing—obviously terrified of the reception of any such expression—that he might again be rejected. This is the cycle that Charlie cannot escape, a constant fear of rejection. When Nick finally convinces Charlie, after long hours of his remaining behind like a lost fish out of water, to join him in the ocean, Charlie admits he has something he wants to talk about, as does Nick. But Charlie always afraid to go first with his confession, allows Nick to express what he hopes will be the commitment to their relationship.

     Although Nick is totally committed to Charlie, the boy can’t even grasp his love, when he admits his fear is that his lover has an eating disorder, the fact of which Charlie immediately rejects, hurt, moveover, by his realizing that he now can’t now possibly express he needs for a declaration of love.

    Finally, in Nick’s bedroom, Nick having gone off to shower off the sand of their outing, does Charlie take the opportunity, through a closed door, to dare to tell the truth: what he really wants is an expression of love.

    Nick, taken aback with the sudden revelation, runs after Charlie, barefoot through the cold streets to tell him that he does, in fact, truly love him without any of the reservations that Charlie imaginations between them.

    But in this third year, problems are the issue of the day. Nick, with his family, is forced into isolation in Menorca, while Nick suffering at home begins to realize, through his computer peeping that he is anorexic and having eating disorders, punishing his body for his own neglect. Even his sister Tori, without any love of her own, turns her dark passion on her brother, notifying Nick that Charlie is suffering in his absence. In a distant phone call to Nick, Charlie finally admits to his eating disorder, and Nick feels helpless as he turns to his sympathetic and knowledgeable aunt Diane (Hayley Atwell), who explains that he cannot be responsible for Charlie’s illness, and must encourage him to get professional help.

     But Nick and Charlie are not the only in this season with complaints. Isaac, now realizing that he is asexual and aromantic feels left out, naturally, with Charlie’s infatuation with Nick and his increasing distancing of himself from his old friends, along with Tao’s full commitment to Elle. Although Nick returns, the Charlie he finds is becoming increasingly weak and lethargic, even though he plans a special birthday for his boyfriend at the zoo, where finally Isaac becomes brave enough to express his hurt, and Elle, realizing that Tao is pushing all his fears of abandonment from his father’s death upon his love for her, attempts to wake him up to his neglect of both Isaac and Charlie.

    By episode 4, Charlie is finally able to talk to Nick about his problems, Nick insisting that, with him in support, he should address the problem to his parents, who facing the boys hand in hand as Charlie confesses his dilemma, finally realize, to Tori’s relief, that their son needs the help of doctors. After months of waiting, Charlie is finally permitted to enter a clinic where he is diagnosed with not only anorexia nervosa but obsessive–compulsive disorder. And Nick is now faced with the emptiness of his own needed companionship as Charlie is treated, as always in this teenage fantasy, by the “help of kind doctors,” as Wikipedia expresses it. This is after all, a fantasy, in which almost everyone is kind and gentle, forgiving and penitent. No one in this world, even Charlie’s sometimes restrictive mother, whom after he recovers, he angrily stalks away from in order to finally come to the full fulfillment of his love with Nick in sex, is truly evil. Even in Season 2, The New York Times reviewer Jesse Green was rightfully carping (along with his crying) that after two years it seemed highly improbable that two young teenagers still had not fucked. And Season 3 continues the delusion, as every time they attempt any kind of penetration, mothers, sisters, and, in the Nick’s case, even mean brothers intrude. Only when Charlie rejects his mother’s strong insistence that he wait until after the always intrusive GCSE tests which determine one’s position in the English education society, do the boys get it on. Thank heaven. No other teenagers who I known have waited for three years to express their full love for one another. Sorry, I never permitted myself to meet someone who I might immediately have wanted to get into bed.

     Tao and Elle have previously done so, but also with great trepidation, particularly given the fact that Elle is still quite sensitive about her female transformation. But even more painful, given that she has become a rather noted on-line artist, a TV interview pretending to discuss her art puts the young teenager in a position of supporting transgender affirmation. The pain of being seen as a figure of representation instead of a human being with a gift is transforming, even if it results in tears and deep contemplation. Perhaps only Elle realizes just how important of a choice she has made and the consequences she will soon have to face, particularly given the fact that the US president elect has just declared that we are a nation now of only two genders.

     Darcy, who evidently didn’t do so well in her GCSE tests, has a hard time in keeping up with Tara’s intellectual endeavors, which may even include an education at Oxford.

     The intellects of this world, Nick, Tara, Elle, and Imogen (Nick’s former girlfriend who now identifies as non-gender) take a trip to the colleges and universities trying to attract them. The local university Nick though he might attend, is not nearly as appealing as the University of Leeds, where he can get a good education and an open scholarship for his rugby expertise. Tara hates Oxford, and seeks somewhere else, and Elle decides she really wants to go to Paris or Berlin to study art. Imogen is still quite confused about here identity, let alone her educational opportunities.

     But what is clear for the new Season 4 we are now promised is that the distances these lovers will obviously move away from their youthful loved ones will be problematic and in some cases devastating.

     Yet Charlie, terrified of playing drums for a local rock group is able to go on and perform quite effectively, even when Nick, stuck in traffic, cannot get the concert in time to support him. Tao is already wondering if he might not get an extra job to help make enough money to travel back and forth to Paris or Berlin. Nick has planned out the four-hour train ride from Truham to Leeds, although he shutters at the distance; he too, as Imogen and Elle advise him, must now look to his own well-being. Even Tori finds another boy, Michael, to who she might offer up the deep love she has saved up for her brother.

     Perhaps given all the turmoil these young lovers have now had to face in their lives a new director such as Newbery was necessary. Tears still welled into my eyes, perhaps even moreso since I recognized these simple characters were now undergoing more complex dilemmas. Even though they are all sexual perverts and sinners in the eyes of the religious establishment, these babies are still suffering over the most overwhelming and miraculous experiences they will probably ever have in their lives. Perhaps only the elderly luncheon dates of Mr Ajayi and Mr Farouk might provide these youth lovers with another alternative. But even they, surely, would give up their elder romance for such delightful misadventures of youth. To two men nominate Charlie to become head master to the younger men in his school. We in the US don’t have such mentors; but I might have wished there was a Charlie to guide me through my early years.

 

Los Angeles, December 23, 2024

Reprinted from My World Cinema (December 2024).