different from the others
by Douglas Messerli
Samuel
Theis (screenwriter and director) Petite nature (Softie) / 2021
In the
very first scenes of director Samuel Theis’ Petite nature we see an
entire family on an overnight move, Sonia (Mélissa Olexa) moving out of her
current lover’s house with her young daughter Mélissa (Jade Schwartz), her
10-year-old son Johnny (Aliocha Reinert), and her elder son Dylan (Ilario
Gallo). They find someone to move most of their possessions, but with no car these
pre-teens. must walk through the streets of the city in which they live,
Forbach, in northeastern France, each with treasured objects in hand, Johnny
leading with two plastic bags of fish, hurrying forward to get them before they
die back into their aquarium.
The long-haired blond boy Johnny, the
“softie” of the title, is a caring and loving child who is sensitive to what
most of the family is simply not—in this case even embarrassed to be seen as
part of the procession of displaced family on their way to public housing
project. The elder pot-smoking teen is interested in his girlfriend (Romande
Esch) and his male friends in the project who hang out mostly in a heavily
graffiti-covered tunnel, while it is Johnny who must care for his little
sister, walking her to and back from school, dressing and even feeding her, and
getting the family groceries, while his mother works for a pittance at a
cigarette stand and makes out with a series of male lovers we see throughout
the movie, coming home many a night drunk.
It is the new school teacher who has moved
from a more affluent area of France to the poorer Alsace-Lorraine region who
further opens his mind, which leaves him raw in a world which demands being
tough and hardy. Here many of the natives even speak another language, a mix of
French and German, Franconian, like the people, a mix of heritages that seem
always at battle with one another.
On the very first day of the class, the
teacher Mr. Adamski (Antoine Reinartz) asks each of his students to describe
where they would like to be in their lives in 30 years, a question unimaginable
to most 10-year-olds, but inconceivable to a childlike Johnny. One student
would like be in Miami, married with children, another in Dubai making large
sums of money, but Johnny is nearly speechless just for nature of the question
let alone his natural shyness. Within a few weeks Adamski has begun to open
this beautiful child’s mind—the visual and oral evidence of which is one of the
many joys of the movie—and Johnny has fallen in love with him, quite literally,
obviously realizing far too early that he loves men, particularly when they
might serve as the father he hardly ever sees.
At another point, seemingly out of
nowhere, Johnny tells his mother that because of their financial situation and
his intelligence he might be able to attending boarding school in Metz that
Adamski has told him about. But, of course, Johnny’s mother won’t hear of that
possibility either, given her need of the boy to raise his sister and keep
order in their house.
Johnny becomes so quickly infatuated with
his teacher, that one afternoon he picks up his sister and stakes out Adamski’s
house in a fashionable neighborhood, peering into the empty home and, from
behind a tree, watching his teacher arrive home with his girlfriend, Nora
(French rock singer Izïa Higelin). Arriving home late, Johnny is faced by a
distressed mother who, when he refuses to tell her where he was, queries his
little sister and finally beats him when he refuses to explain the situation.
The boy, however, has his own plan already
in mind, a disastrous trip to Adamski’s home during school vacation when he
knows that Nora will not be there. He hopes in might be invited in, but when
the teacher says he is busy correcting papers and has no time to entertain him,
Johnny simply asks
Shocked and rightfully terrified given
most of Western contemporary cultures’ hysteria about pedophilia, he demands
that he boy immediately dress and hurries him out the door with no niceties or
friendliness about it, knowing that if this event ever even got out, he would
lose his job. In attempting to help the child, he and his girlfriend have
gotten too close.
It reminds me of the horrible scene in in
Norwegian director Gjertrud Bergaust’s 2018 film Jakt (Hunt),
where an empathetic farmer has offered a young local bullied gay boy a job, but
is suddenly forced to fire him and lock him out of the house when he realizes
that he is being set-up for a charge of pederasty.
The film ends the only way it might, with
the man who offered him the world having to remove himself slightly from the
boy’s further education. But Johnny nonetheless, like his classmates, takes his
first communion, an event attended of necessity by Adamski and Nora, who
congratulate him as they do his other classmates. And at the party for him,
Nora’s current boyfriend, seeing Johnny apart from the celebrants they’ve
invited, pulls him up into his arms and carries him into the room of other
males who similarly carry him on above their heads, the perfect kind of love
for a boy who so desperately needs but cannot find open expression of male
affection.
As usual, his mother drinks too much, and
is carried home drunk by two men, Johnny being forced to undress her and lay
her out on the couch, putting a blanket over her passed-out body.
Despite everything, this child is
determined to get a better education, refusing to become what his family and
local society has planned for him. He may be a softie, but he a tough-minded
child with the intelligence and desire to be someone, if not more important, at
least different from the others—which takes us all the way back to Richard
Oswald’s 1919 film wherein a concert violinist makes the mistake of falling in
love with his own special student.
Fortunately, Adamski has not made the same
mistake. As Pat Brown of Slant magazine recognizes, while “Theis’s
account of class and sexual precarity remains knotty and unresolved in ways
that one doesn’t expect from the typical melodrama about impoverished youth, Softie
ventures into territory that, with Maïmouna Doucouré’s Cuties, proved to
be relatively volatile: the sexuality of marginalized French pre-teens.Rather
than teaching a lesson [however] Softie seems much more interested in
conveying an experience. Theis proves much more interested in the pain of small
mistakes and miscommunications than he is in grand drama. Providing a
straightforward glance into the experience of navigating a queer identity when
one’s environment provides little to no models for expressing it, Softie
is a noteworthy repurposing of the coming-of-age social drama.”
The saddest thing, however, is that
open-minded men such as Adamski are forced to keep their hearts in terrible
check when it comes to helping the youth of their classrooms. In our society,
love is such a confusing force that it must be denied the very individuals who
sometimes need it most.
Yet I can
imagine that Adamski might have dealt with the child’s torturous farce of love
in an entirely different manner, laughing it off while demanding he dress and
leave, attempting to make it clear to the boy that there is a vast different
between caring for another and a physical expression of love. As it was,
Adamski and Nora behaved almost as hysterically as do our general societies in
such situations. And had the boy attempted to act out such a rejection in
another manner, he might not have been so easily saved.
But I loved this film, nonetheless, for
the child who in the end not only was saved but redeemed himself recognizing
perhaps for the first time that despite his gentle assimilation of
responsibilities and recognition of the failures of those around him, that he
might be someone of greater worth.
Los
Angeles, March 17, 2023
Reprinted
from World Cinema Review (March 2023).





















