Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Nino Mancusco | Il Palazzo / 2013 [commercial advertisement]

anniversary dinner with candlelight

by Douglas Messerli

 

Nino Mancusco (director) Il Palazzo / 2013 [2.40 minutes] [commercial advertisement]

 

In this John Saint-Denis candle ad, the first of two in 2013, Paolo (Peter Calandra) rushes home to his palazzo in the hills of Montgenevre, just over the French border; his phone dead, the car stopping and staring as he attempts to navigate road construction, he arrives a little late for his lover’s and his anniversary dinner. Flowers in hand, he discovers his lover missing.

 


    But as he goes to light up a calming John Saint-Denis candle on the mantel of the fireplace, he discovers a note addressed to “P.” Calming himself, lighting up another such candle, he sits and opens the note to discover that his lover has gone out to fetch some wine, promising to be right back.

 


     Slowly stripping himself of his sweaty shirt from his work at the American offices in Torino, he lights up a few more of the Saint-Denis flames, showers, and waits as his lover enters, facing him in the buff, the firelight behind him. Who could deny this beauty anything?

    The “M” who signed the note is evidently the beautiful French boy Marc, more of whom we encounter in the second ad when they have moved to The Paris Flat, a far more profound advertisement.

    Whatever Paolo does for the US company, we know he must be quite handsomely paid. And he has the good taste to fill his rooms with John Saint-Denis candles.

 

Los Angeles, January 13, 2026

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (January 2026).

    

Joe Mantello | The Boys in the Band / 2020

the boys disbanded

by Douglas Messerli

 

Ned Martel (screenplay, based on the play by Mart Crowley), Joe Mantello (director) The Boys in the Band / 2020 (see also The Boys in the Band / 1970)

 

My earlier review of William Friedkin’s original film version of The Boys in the Band ends with my suggesting that I might not yet again re-visit this play adaptation into a film. But at the time I had not contemplated that I would be working on an omnibus multi-volume study of My Queer Cinema, nor that I would never be quite able to sever my complex ties with the play and the two films that have been so important for the representation of gay life in the USA. Finally, the death of its playwright Mart Crowley this terrible year of 2020, more than a half-century later, saddens and startles me both.


     This is a work I have love and hated throughout most of my life, and without my truly realizing it, along with the Stonewall riots of 1969 probably did more to alter the way my husband Howard and I came to see ourselves in the very first year of our relationship. When the play originally appeared it was, sad to say, one of the first honest portrayals of how gays spent some of their evenings in New York and other major US urban centers. And yet that very expression of a hidden reality almost immediately led to an end of that lifestyle pattern. As Crowley portrayed it, the weekly (sometimes nightly) gatherings of an outrageous simulacrum of a family that could succor gay men who were daily forced to portray themselves to others and, perhaps, even to themselves, as normative heterosexuals, offered them a time and way to express their true fears and emotions through an elaborate exaggeration of what that daily world imagined queerness to represent. As any comedian knows, laughing at oneself is also a mode of protection, just as the camp absurdity of using female names and gestures to describe sometimes highly masculine men might almost be seen as a privately hostile comeback to the daily asides they had to endure about women and queers that came out the mouths of American man-boys who still often spoke as if they were locked away in a high school locker room.


      Yet as I wrote in the review above, “Of course, just attending such an evening clearly meant you were, in fact, queer, and gathering with the others you were re-announcing that. The patois spoken by these groups was evidence, itself, of being in the know, sharing in a kind of private language which the society as a whole would find difficult to comprehend. And if, in their put-downs, it might superficially sound as if the entire gathering hated each other, it was really a reassertion of love, the way a stereotypical Jewish family might endlessly kvetch to one another for their behaviors. Love and family were at the heart of such events. In fact, only someone like Woody Allen can match Crowley’s loving cruelty of one’s own kind.”

       Moreover, as Crowley’s play made clear for anyone with a shred of humor and an open mind, those evenings also represented a great deal of fun. Again, from the review above: “They dance, they sing, they bitch, they kiss and make-up, and, ultimately, they leap into one another’s arms in tears of pain. Yet together they get through each night.” And I should have added, behind their insistent need to out-do one another in their humorous barbs, they surely laughed a lot under their breaths. Just getting through the night was a bit like performing in a stage play until everyone was so utterly exhausted they knew it was time for bed.


      For the first third of this new version of Crowley’s play, which basically remains true to his script in terms of the words that appear on the page, the excellent actors under Joe Mantello’s direction—Jim Parsons as Michael; Zachery Quinto as Harold, Matt Bomer as Donald, Andrew Rannells as Larry, Robin de Jesús as Emory, Tuc Watkins as Hank, Michael Benjamin Washington as Bernard, and Brian Hutchinson as Alan—all repeating their roles from the award-winning 2018 revival and all of them, unlike the original 1968 players, openly gay, nicely brought that bitter comic spirit alive.

     After a few uncomfortable moments of wondering whether Jim Parsons (who I haven’t liked in a couple of his many roles) would perform the role as well as Kenneth Nelson did in Friedkin’s movie, I sat back and enjoyed the by now familiar action, as one-by-one the various celebrants arrive bearing gifts and twisted versions of bon mots. The work came winding its somewhat creaky but often hilarious way forward until the arrival of the unexpected guest, Michael’s old college friend, the fiercely heterosexual Alan, whose obvious discomfort upon espying a party of only males—a feeling he holds within but is so obvious that he might as well have a cartoon balloon containing his thoughts hovering over his head—that Emory cannot resist pulling out his proverbial knitting needle sharpened with years of girlish giggles to stick it in. His masculinity suddenly thoroughly threatened, Alan cannot contain himself, like the locker-room jock he has always been, from slugging it out.

      As Michael swirls him out of the party into his upstairs bedroom, Alan further attempts to explain his actions by expressing just how much he detests effeminate men, reminding him of pansies. Each time he speaks a sentence the camera pans to Michael, whose palpable reaction to the hateful words are expressed, quite brilliantly, mostly in his eyes and neck, the former of which represent his ability to see the horrible truth and the latter which possibly might feel its repercussions, a bit like a rabbit suddenly being lifted up by its ruff into a hunter’s hand.


     Yet, unlike the earlier film, in which Michael seems a bit tougher-minded and able to stash away such stupidities into a closet of exhausted recognition, Parson’s Michael, already broadcasting the fact that we learn only later in the play, that he is equally uncomfortable with his sexual proclivities, seems ready to pull out the nearest knife.

    This might only be described as great theater, but the director’s and screen-writer’s vision also represents a radical shift in the telling of Crowley’s story. Suddenly, like a vacuum any humor that the story held is sucked away. Crowley, in a special feature accompanying the film speaking with the players just weeks before he died, keeps reminding us that while his original held a great deal of humor, it also contains a far more serious message.


       And we suddenly recognize that this company and Mantello, all of whom came of age long after the kind of gay gatherings this play represents, taking Crowley’s words to heart have determined to contextualize this work within an historical period when gays, hostilely treated by the society in which they lived, also held within a great deal of self-hatred and, accordingly, anger against their own kind. If those same issues, in fact, are openly expressed in Crowley’s original, here they suddenly become grand themes played out the moment that Michael, faced with a figure who reminds him of his former denial of his sexuality, suddenly abandons his temporary sobriety, drinking gin and anything else he might guzzle down throughout the rest of the evening.

       What was previously bitchy love becomes now outright punishment and even torture, as if Albee’s anger expressed in Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? has blown into the room that, in Crowley’s tale, has just been thought to have been locked out with the sudden rainstorm. One by one, Michael, through his open accusations and distorted version of the old party favorite the Telephone Game, turns innocent childhood and teenage infatuations of love into a harrowing of the past that permits no winners except Alan, whose telephone call to his wife leads oddly to a renewal of their relationship.

       Albee surely would have made something else of this game, which reminds me of “Get the Guests” in Who’s Afraid, which Crowley’s more predictable language and his far more superficial characters simply cannot convey.

     By focusing only on the scathing statements of hatred instead presenting them in the context of bitchy insights, the cinematic creators present their viewers with characters who have grown so distasteful that we can only wonder why they might possibly ever want to meet one another again. Only those who refuse to play along, the birthday boy Harold and Michael’s ex-lover Donald, who, knowing Michael better than the others, sit and watch the proceedings like ghoulish voyeurs, are spared. Both suggest that they will see Michael again soon.


     We are certain that Alan will never again communicate with the host, and we can imagine that having fallen in love again with one another through that horrific game, Hank and Larry may no longer need to attend such absurd conventions. If Bernard and Emory—the two who represent outsiders not only for their sexual desires but for the color of their skin—decide to return to that hell, it will most certainly be with a new sense of respect for one another’s identity. Michael, filled with guilt, slinks off to a nearby mass to pray for forgiveness; but this time, we are afraid, he might wake up with something more than the “icks.”

      In short, by attempting to deconstruct the original work, the writer, director, and cast have torn the play and players apart line by limb. The final scenes which present jazz-infused stills of the play’s characters now coldly pondering outside on the Manhattan streets what they have just suffered in the hot-house drama during the previous hours (the movie runs 122 minutes) further dissociate the film from the 1950s and 60s gay world by framing the survivors as  something close to the suffering heterosexuals locked out of romantic sex in the serious-minded soap operas whipped up by Robert Anderson in Tea and Sympathy and William Inge (who was gay) in The Light at the Top of the Stars (1957). I’m sorry to have to remind Mantello and Mantel that Crowley’s odd play, even if it opened up a world which it simultaneously shuttered, was never a work awaiting the deep analysis of clever folklorists.

 

Los Angeles, October 6, 2020

Reprinted from World Cinema Review and My Queer Cinema blog (October 2020).  

 

Andrew Ahn | 돌Dol (First Birthday) / 2011

a wall of separation

by Douglas Messerli

 

Andrew Ahn (screenwriter and director) Dol (First Birthday) / 2011 [12 minutes]

 

Korean-American filmmaker Andrew Ahn’s second film, First Birthday, was, in part, his way of coming out to his family. Using his real family members as some of the actors, the film features the celebration of the “Dol,” the first birthday ritual celebration of the central character’s nephew.

     Nick Kim (Joshua Kwak) is a Korean-American gay man living with his companion Brian (Martin Lee) who attends the party without his friend, even though his sister brother and sister-in-law ask why he didn’t bring him to the event. Yet nothing else is spoken about his difference at the event, and it is clear, that Nick has not yet revealed his sexuality to his parents, just as Ahn had not to his own family, who asked him over the next several weeks while he was editing the film, to further reveal the overall plot.


   On that account the event, while beautiful in its own right—except for the constantly crying baby, which suggests that his nephew Benjamin is not a happy child despite the rush of love around him—it is a rather alienating situation for Nick, as so many family celebrations are for those in the LGBTQ community. As Letterboxd commentator Matt Collera puts it: “The main character feels like he's being tolerated rather than accepted, seen but not heard.”

    And, clearly there is always the desire—in this case expressed very obliquely by the attention

the two gay men give to their pet dog—to also be able to celebrate with the family the joy of having such a child. Nick’s face lightens and a smile comes to his lips the moment he is asked to hold his nephew for a picture, even as the baby breaks out anew in tears.


    Critic Jason Sondhi nicely summaries the situation:

 

“Because it is so personal of a story, Ahn is able to treat the conflict within the lead character with unusual nuance.  Key moments are related with held shots and knowing looks. Thematically it is sublime—the idea of being the “perfect son” is a very real pressure in Asian-American communities, and the idea of using the Dol as a stage to play out Nick’s shames is exquisite: his shame at not being the son he imagines his parents want, of, by not inviting him, failing to be the partner he should be to his boyfriend, and, mixed up within those two obligations, the painful feeling that  he will never fully participate in this important ceremony that connects his family through generations.”


    Nick returns home to find Brian sleeping, his lover awakening to ask about the event, without much of an answer. Nick simply sits beside him on the couch, and in a gesture that expresses all his sadness and emotional pulls leans his head on Brian’s chest. As for so very many gay men, the only way such quandaries can be resolved is through hugs and sex, the latter of which is played out soon after in the shower, as Brian joins his friend. Yet Ahn makes clear that not only is this not a voyeuristic moment for his audience but is not truly a full sexual event for the couple, as we see them only vaguely, behind the bubbled glass come together in an embrace. As another Letterboxd commentator describes the scene: “A wall of warped glass protects the vulnerable characters, yet prevents anyone from truly seeing them as they are.”


   Already in this sophomore production Ahn has made clear that his major theme is the almost impossible struggle to balance the experience of being gay with the traditional cultural values (in his case Asian) and family life.

 

Los Angeles, January 13, 2026

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (January 2026).

 

Nino Mancusco | The Paris Flat / 2013 [commercial advertisement]

candle in the wind

by Douglas Messerli

 

John Saint-Denis (scenario), Nino Mancusco (director) The Paris Flat / 2013 [4 minutes] [commercial advertisement]

 

In this grand 4-minute long advertisement for John Saint-Denis Home Vintage Candles we are provided with a full back story as a sequel to the company’s previous gay ad Il Palazzo.

     In this small fiction, Paolo (Peter Calandra) and his young French lover Marc (Cheynne Parker) are now living in a beautiful Paris apartment. However, Paolo’s company is transferring him to the States. Paolo has an American Passport but Marc has no way of remaining in the States, so he must leave him behind.


 


   On the day we encounter the couple, the day of Paolo’s flight, we rises early to empty out his drawer of clothes, leaving behind a small box and his beautiful lover in bed. As he sits down for a morning cup of coffee, he sadly calls up the wonderful times he and Marc have had in the apartment

entertaining others, the beautiful face of his lover hauntingly lingering in every memory.

 


     He opens the door for the morning The International Herald, and suddenly everything changes. He dresses in a suit with a joyful sense of dispatch before serving up a platter of coffee flanked my his American and Marc’s French passport, now removing the box left in the drawer.

 


    As he serves up breakfast in bed, he places the ring on Marc’s finger, and we note the headlines of the newspaper: “U.S. Fully Recognizes Same Sex Marriage.”

     Now Marc can join him and they can marry in the US. We see both of them now dressed, heading off to the airport, leaving behind a lovely John Saint-Denis candle.

     This lovely film, with a driving musical score by Ornella Vanoni, "La Musica è Finita," asks also for our support of the Human Rights Campaign.

      I’d argue that this is one of the finest gay ads ever produced, caring in nearly every detail, with beautiful black-and-white cinematography by Steven LT Smith, and set design by John Saint-Denis. It makes me want to go out a buy a candle.

 

Los Angeles, January 13, 2026

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (January 2026).

 

 

 

 

 


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