Saturday, August 16, 2025

Lil Nas X | Jolene / 2021 [BBC Radio in the Live Lounge / music video]

no competition

by Douglas Messerli

 

Dolly Parton (lyricist and composer), Lil Nas X (performer) Jolene / 2021 [3 minutes] [BBC Radio in the Live Lounge / music video]

 

The always resilient Dolly Parton recounts how she created this song in her 1988 show. While she was touring on the road in the 1960s, apparently a beautiful bank teller named Jolene was taking care of her husband, and on her return from touring she confronted the “red-haired hussy,” the two of them getting involved in a cat fight in which Jolene pulled off her wig “and nearly beat me to death with it.” But she won, and “I’ve still got my husband,” she declared back them; he recently died.

     Parton sings this song, according, with a slight trill of righteousness in the higher octaves, hinting even a little of a possible yodel of delight as she sings out her plea to please not take her husband away despite her obvious superior beauty.

 

Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene

I'm begging of you please don't take my man

Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene

Please don't take him just because you can

 

Your beauty is beyond compare

With flaming locks of auburn hair

With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green

Your smile is like a breath of spring

Your voice is soft like summer rain

And I cannot compete with you

Jolene


    Strangely, it is almost as if Parton were making love to her enemy instead of challenging her, performing as Parton generally does as someone far more open and forgiving than most people. It is what we love about Parton: her honesty and general kindness even in the face of pure selfishness and cussedness.

     Performed just a few years prior to his highly controversial 2024 music video J Christ, Jolene is perhaps the perfect counterweight to Lil Nas X’s usually over-the-top choral gay song-and-dance performances.

     Here he stands in a nightclub setting, singing Parton’s iconic song in which he begs a woman to please not take away his man, which in his dark burnished baritone and bass notes, invokes a sense of near hopelessness and despondency.


    Lil Nas X has to deal not only with the beauty of Jolene but the inferred gender difference which, since his man has chosen a woman over him, almost defeats him almost before he begins his plea. No trills on the higher registers here, just the rolls of inevitability as he looks out with his dark brown eyes. He sings the song almost like a dirge at moments, picking up the tempo only in the second verse, as if he has already lost his lover, and almost fading into a chocked-up and throbbing throat by the end of the number. You almost want to cry for the loss to which gay boys have long grown accustomed.

     Parton’s reaction to the man named after the Mitsubishi Montero revealed, yet again, the great singer’s typical enthusiasm: “I was so excited when someone told me that Lil Nas X had done my song ‘Jolene.’ I had to find it and listen to it immediately…and it’s really, really good. Of course, I love him anyway. I was surprised and I’m honored and flattered. I hope he does good for both of us.”

 

Los Angeles, August 16, 2025  

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (August 2025).

      

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