the mad mother
by Douglas Messerli
Aaron Schoonover (screenwriter and director) Rabbit Hole / 2023 [25 minutes]
It’s a difficult life, but he obviously
feels he owes to his mother who still loves him at a time when he is in the
process of sexual coming out. But what do you do if you mother has also somehow
been infected with online QAnon lunacy, believing that President John Kennedy was
assassinated, and that at age 103 he will be joining the soon-to-be-elected President
Trump as Vice President. Even though she has worked as a nurse she is totally
against vaccines, and, even worse than her social and political views which, as
this film’s title suggests, have truly taken her down the “rabbit hole,” she
has begun sending “donations” to her on-line causes assuring her, she reports,
of her son and her salvation when the revolution comes.
On one of his restaurant-runs, he encounters
a high school peer, Dom (Drake Tobias). They didn’t hang out together in high
school, but vaguely recognize now that they are perhaps both gay and are clearly
attracted to one another; after all there aren’t many choices in their small Ohio
town.
Dom reports,
however, that he is soon moving to New York City, just for the gay life, he
jokes. The realization that one of the few potential friends will disappear
from his life, Blake is crestfallen, obviously feeling even more alone in a
world of near insanity that so clearly depresses our young hero; but
momentarily, at least, he is uplifted by Dom’s invite to stop over one
afternoon and “just hang out.”
The boys
get on well, with Dom even suggesting, out of the blue, that Blake should join
him in an apartment in New York. But with so much on his mind, Blake demurs,
and not much happens of special afternoon get together but a few friendly moments
of conversation and relaxation. Yet, upon Blake’s leave-taking he suddenly
kisses Dom, the latter a bit taken aback simply because, as he puts it, “I wasn’t
sure that’s what you wanted.” He invites him back into the basement den where
they apparently have sex.
A few
days later, after taking a test online for one of his courses, Blake shows up
in the room where his mother stays tune at nearly hours of the day and night to
her QAnon networks, he shows up wearing a mask. She is startled.
He
reports that he has tested himself and discovered he has Covid. She forces him
to take off the mask, and refuses to believe it until he reports that Dom and a
family member have also tested positive.
Blake, however, tells her not to be too
worried since he’s been vaccinated. The mention of that word stops her babble
as she attempts to take in the reality that while she is certain that vaccinations
are dangerous and unhealthy—she suddenly even claims to feel some symptoms of
an imaginary disease she has caught from her son’s contagion—but that her son
has chosen through is own consultation with on-line doctors and scientists to
go against everything she has come to believe. She immediately orders him out
of the house.
Fortunately, Dom and his parents are only too happy to welcome him into
their home, and after a bit of brooding, Blake begins to open up to joy,
sharing experiences with his new friend like enjoying family dinners, snuggling
up to Dom, letting his friend paint his finger nails, and even
running together with him through the rain just like all film gay boys do when
they are happy and in love. Too bad Ohio doesn’t have an ocean beach for them
to race across, the most common trope lately, I’ve noticed, to signify queer
love, but they do have a pond!
Soon after he begins to live with Dom, he agrees to join him in his move to New York City, and they begin to check the internet to find a Brooklyn apartment where they live together.
Blake, in
short, is saved by is own mother’s loss of mind; when he returns home to pick
up some clothes and other things left behind, he finds that she’s gone to for a
QAnon gathering in Youngstown, but is reminded by his absent mother via
cellphone that he should be out of the house by the time she returns.
By that
time Blake and Dom are driving off to their new lives where they agree just to
be friends in order evidently to be able to fully sexually discover themselves
in their new shared world.
Rabbit
Hole is not truly that interesting as yet another gay coming-of-age movie
except for it’s wacky QAnon angle. But even that odd element might have been
far better handled if director Aaron Shoonover had expended a bit more of the
film’s rather shallow love story by showing us how a fairly normal human being
working to help heal others gradually crawls into unreal shadow world from she
can no longer escape. What are the psychological issues that help create the
state of mind that suddenly requires a switch from logic into a weird confusion
of vaguely rightest religious issues, pedophilic hysteria, demonic theories,
and conspiracy plots so twisted that even a sci-fi or political/adventure filmmakers
couldn’t imagine them as possible filmscripts.
Clearly
from the evidence we have about the gay love story Schoonover vaguely points
to, he doesn’t have the full cinematic skills to explore anything too deeply.
As Schoonover himself noted in an interview on Script:
“I knew I wanted to do a queer coming-of-age story,
but as I was outlining and coming up with ideas, everything felt like a little
derivative of like things we've seen before. And then I happened, funnily
enough, to be on TikTok, and I saw someone posted a screengrab of a Reddit
thread called QAnon casualties. And it was this really sad story of this man
recounting what his wife was going through with QAnon, a very intense spiral.
And I was like, ‘This is a movie, and why hasn't this been made yet?’”
When your
Eureka moment comes from TikTok and Reddit, you don’t have a lot of room, I
guess, to flesh out a truly sincere exploration of character behavior. Blake is
a sad gay boy who comes out of his shell through his lunatic mother’s rection
and that, in a nutshell, is the “grab.”
That
said, the whirl of images around it are certain to creak as they do in this
film that might have been so emotionally startling as a drama or even a wildly
bizarre comedy. As it stands, this movie, sorry to report, is basically a bore.
Los Angeles, September 27,
2025
Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog
(September 2025).





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