Thursday, January 1, 2026

Ogilvy & Mather / Tony Kaye | Stand By Your Man / 1995 [commercial advertisement for Guinness beer, never released]

stick with your own kind

by Douglas Messerli

 

Ogilvy & Mather / Tony Kaye (directors and producer) Stand By Your Man / 1995 [commercial advertisement for Guinness beer, never released]  

 

Produced in 1995 by Ogilvy & Mather for Guinness Beer in the United Kingdom, this commercial advertisement featuring the 1968 Country Western classic by Tammy Wynette, “Stand by Your Man,” was made in support of the legalization of same-sex marriage.

     The black-and-white ad begins with an overview of an urban neighborhood in a British city which immediately gives way to a gloved hand cleaning up—washing dishes, tossing out cans, flushing the toilet, and rinsing away grime—with a rubber-gloved hand as the song’s lyric laments “Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman / Giving all your love to just one man.” A handsome man in shown in the bathtub with a huge yawn on his face.


    As the lyrics continue “But if you love him, you'll forgive him / Even though he's hard to understand,” the male figure breaks off the front of a chest of drawers and evidently has left the sink afloat with various bottles of shampoo and shaving lotion. He tosses his white shirt vaguely in the direction of a hamper of other dirty clothes before putting on a fresh one.

    A quotation appears on the screen stating “Men and Women shouldn’t live together. They are totally different animals,” attributed to English singer and actor Diana Dors.

    Our sloppy male hero, now dressed, races down the stairs, a piece of toast in his mouth and a cup of coffee in his hands, stopping only when another handsome man comes out of the house behind him. He quickly gives the cute boy a kiss and rushes off to his car, putting the coffee on the car roof as he drives off, the mug falling down over the trunk of the car.


    Another online slogan appears: “Not everything in Black and White makes sense,” after which a glass of black and white (often described as black and tan) beer circles before the camera.

    This truly clever gay commercial received according to Adweek such “massive negative backlash” that the ad was immediately pulled by the company before even airing it.

    According to Jim Edwards, writing in Business Insider once the press heard about the upcoming advertisement, the company denied it even existed. In 2010 it was finally uploaded to YouTube and received hundreds of thousands of views.

    Although the company attempted to suggest there was ambiguity about the commercial as to whether the men where gay, it is quite apparent that they were a couple even before gay marriage became legal in Britain in 2014.

    It’s too bad Guinness didn’t have the gumption to “stand by their ad,” a true classic of commercial advertising.

 

Los Angeles, January 1, 2026

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema (January 2026)

 

 

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