Thursday, October 23, 2025

Douglas Messerli | The Love That Cannot Be Spoken, Heard, or Seen [Introduction]

the love that cannot be spoken, heard, or seen

by Douglas Messerli

 

It’s interesting that in the short time that LGBTQ directors have been able to begin making pictures fully focusing on lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender love that a fairly sophisticated group of films have been made in the 21st century regarding men who are physically impaired by being blind, deaf, or mute. One of these, unfortunately, treats the issue a bit more like a comic routine rather than a serious exploration of the difficulties these individuals have in finding gay partners in an already lonely world; yet in each of the seven films I discuss below (one simply an expansion of an early version), I am moved by the basic sense of positivity and hope these directors display in the inevitability of deaf, blind, or mute individuals pairing up with others who, although they don’t have those impairments surely have as many if not more others. In almost all the films I discuss below, it appears that those without the ability to hear, speak, or see are more loving and simply beautiful figures than their partners.


     The schoolboys David and Leonardo of the Mexican director Roberto Fiesco’s film David and Brazilian Daniel Ribeiro’s I Don’t Walk to Go Back Alone and The Way He Looks, as well as the slightly older figures of Brett, Alex, Aaron, Niall, and Mike in US directors Rory Dering’s Pittsburgh, Andrew Keenan-Bolger’s Sign, Julio Dowansingh’s Louder Than Words, and Aleksei Borovikov’s Glances are all true beauties who shine much more brightly than their companions. And through them I felt deep love and empathy—without pity or worry—for their characters. And despite the difficulties these individuals obviously daily face, they have all found ways to bring great joy and love to their worlds.

      Certainly there are probably other films on homosexuals who have problems with locomotion and mental difficulties before and after the ones I have selected. The important thing is that within a culture that has been historically so connected with physical beauty and mental agility that these issues are beginning to be explored. And I look forward to more of these sorts of films in the future.

 

Los Angeles, October 23, 2025

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (October 2025).

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