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Gijs Blom | Escapade / 2014

making the leap

by Douglas Messerli

 

Gijs Blom and Robin Boissevain (screenplay), Gijs Blom (director) Escapade / 2014 [21.49 minutes]

 

In Dutch director Gijs Blom’s 2014 short Escapade two boys who live a couple of doors away from one another have become, over the years, close friends. And in the first long sequence of the film it is Quint’s (Robin Boissevain) birthday, and Thijmen (Gijs Blom) is determined to help him celebrate it as they hang out together all night, taking in the bars, participating in small street fights, and mostly, on Quint’s part, puking. By morning both are, as they might express it, “wasted.”


     They both pause before their respective front doors knowing that inside there will be hell to pay. Quint’s father (Daniël Boissevain) appears to be an unemployed lay-about, who spends most of his days drinking and passing out on the couch. And there is no greeting from his father, after whom he is forced to clean up. When Quint confronts him by responding, “nice decorations,” his father stomps out of the room, declaring that they never celebrated his birthday either.

     In Thijmen’s case, however, both his mother and father are in the kitchen angry over the fact that he has not called them, that they have spent an anxiety-ridden night worrying about his whereabouts, unable to even contact him by cellphone. They ground him for two weeks, demanding during that time that he comes from school and does his schoolwork with no nights out.

      The class differences between these two families are immediately apparent and the boys’ respective goals in life are accordingly quite different. It is clear that Thijmen’s parents expect him to attending the university, while he buys Quint a book on street art in Berlin, revealing the boy’s major interest.

       Quint discovers an empty bottle of gin in the kitchen, evidence presumably that his father has gone back to his heavy drinking, while Thijmen’s mother furiously enters his bedroom to note that his jacket smells of beer, reminding him that they had an agreement about his drinking. Since they have evidently changed the legal drinking age from 16 to 18, at 17 he is no longer of age. And she is furious for his infraction of the law.

       In short, Thijmen’s parents intensely care about their son, overseeing his activities, assuring that he gets an education and doesn’t go astray. Quint’s father seems nearly oblivious to his son’s activities or even his feelings. The boy is forced to clean up after the father, to prepare his own meals and even, at times, make sure his father gets something to eat.

      We see Thijmen imagining his life on a park bench as a father as his young son play nearby while Quint is under a bridge painting his graffiti images before he walks the bridge, climbs over the retaining wall to bridge light post and jumps off into the waters below.

       These friends are as different as possible, even though their deep friendship keeps them together. I suspect that some may describe the relationship between them as love, but the film does not at all represent that. The boys have come to enjoy one another, it appears, because of their differences, each offering something the other doesn’t have; for Thijmen his friend obviously proffers some excitement, the forbidden world from which his parents seek to protect him, while for Quint, Thijmen clearly represents a sense of stability, order, and a commitment that is absolutely lacking in his own life.


     Although Thijmen promises to join Quint at a BBQ party a few nights later, he is kept home by his parent’s edict as he sits between the two, both working on their laptops, his mother relying on him from time to time for suggestions of how to better manipulate her way through her manuscript.

       While Thijmen’s parents keep a close eye on him, Quint feels he no longer even exists for his father and imagines the possibility of his just running off, which alas becomes the theme of this film coming-of-age film. The issue has nothing to do with sexuality, but rather how these young men deal with the restrictions and limitations of their home lives, which even further demonstrates the rift that exists between these two boys.

      Quint wonders whether his friends has ever thought about running away, and although it has crossed his friend’s mind—certainly the thought crosses the minds of any child growing up at the age when they begin to realize their identity is different from their parents—but he has never considered it seriously. Quint, however, even has a destination in mind, Berlin, and wonders whether Thijmen might join him, to which his friend says simply, “I wouldn’t mind getting away,” obviously not a statement of permanent disjunction which soon after happens in Quint’s case.

     When Quint’s father returns home from a day job or simply looking for a job and finds his son sitting on couch with headphones on unable to even hear his complaints, he screams violently at him for not cleaning up. In reaction, Quint shouts that he only cares about his son’s existence when he needs something, describing him as a man who spends all day drinking and smoking weed around the house with his friends, a “lousy ass junky,” whom he describes as a loser, which ends with the father slugging out his son.

      The blowup, in turn, results in a real determination to leave, and Quint wants his friend Thijmen to keep his own part of the bargain. His own determination to leave becomes Quint’s inclusion of his friend, “We’re leaving,” something Thijem has not completely accounted for. He explains that he gets frustrated sometimes, but actually his parents “mean well.” The friendship, it is apparent, has its limits. And when Quint insists he is leaving that night, he angrily leaves Thijmen who simply cannot commit.


     But this is not a coming out film, and in fact, the two it appears are not gay but simply buddies. The question here is, how deep is their heterosexual friendship? Or how deep is any such relationship between two close friends? Will Thijmen, as Quint, demands take the dangerous “leap” like he has from the bridge?

         As we observe Quint packing up, we watch Thijmen dining on pasta with his father and mother, and we cannot quite imagine that at the last moment she he comes knocking at Quint’s door, that the boy will be ready to join him.

         Caught pocketing money from his father’s secret hide-away, Quint and his buddy are confronted by the father at the last moment, but this time Quint knocks him out or perhaps worse as the screen grows momentarily goes dark.

         The boys are on the run, but soon Thijmen holds back, staring at his cellphone in distress. Quint encourages him on, but his friend remains in place, a look of deep consternation upon his face. He cannot move forward, having realized that what is the “right decision” for his friend, “leaping off the bridge” is not necessarily the best choice for him; and in that recognition Thijmen also represents his coming of age, his recognition of who is truly is.


     Friends, unlike lovers, do not necessarily run off together as the gay boys do, for example, in Roger Tonge’s 1987 film The Two of Us, who escape to a British beach town and live together until they are forced to return home. The word “escapade” in English has two meanings: 1) “an escaping or breaking loose from restraint or confining rules”; 2) “a reckless adventure or prank.”

     Clearly it is the first meaning for Quint and the second for Thijmen. We observe someone holding a handwritten sign that reads “BERLIN,” and watch a car pull away after someone has climbed in. But we can be certain that Thijmen did not join his buddy, did not make the leap which Quint declares early in the film and repeats at film’s end is always “the right decision.” Sex, in apposition to Tina Turner’s song, has nothing to do with it. Thijmen has made a rational choice to break with his beloved best friend.

        In other words, this also is not a gay film. The boys make no sexual moves toward each other, and no kisses except early on where one boy is slugged for kissing another as a joke. There is no hint here of queer issues. Yet Blom’s well-made buddy film appears on “Gay Shorts and Movies” and is listed in a number of gay and LGBTQ collocations and recommended lists such “LGBT shit,” “Gay Short Film,” and “Favourite Gay Short Films.” Why, one must finally ask, did such viewers choose to include this film? Is it because its structure is similar to a “coming out” film, or that it represents two attractive males, its director/lead actor appearing also in the gay Dutch film Jongens (directed by Mischa Kamp) of the same year? It represents yet another leap of faith that perhaps simply cannot be rationally explained.

 

Los Angeles, May 2, 2022

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (May 2022).

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