Wednesday, September 3, 2025

Leslie Bumgarner | Surprise / 2015

guess who’s coming to dinner

by Douglas Messerli

 

Trilby Beresford (screenplay), Leslie Bumgarner (director) Surprise / 2015 [10 minutes]

 

The ten-minute film Surprise (2015) is unsurprisingly a “coming out” movie. The surprise we sense almost from the first frame forward is about who is “coming out.” Obviously, the handsome young son, Jack (Austin Fryberger) is the immediate suspect, home early from school with the fishy excuse that the coach has cancelled practice. He keeps diving into the refrigerator while his curious mother, Linda (Tess Harper), appearing rather chipper—and, as Jack even observes, “looks really nice tonight”—attempts to get his attention.

       It is clear almost immediately that she is the one with “news,” and that he is even more difficult and dense about her attempts to broach the subject than would be any typical parent facing a young boy or girl attempting to explain his or her sexual inclinations. When Jack sits down on the living room couch for his usual computer TV games, she joins him, he immediately sensing something is amiss. “Are you getting back with dad or something?” He accuses her of “acting psycho,” which suggests just how different she is behaving this afternoon from any other.


   “No Jack, your dad and I are not getting back together again…ever.,” she continues from their former slip of conversation. Indeed, she attempts to take that answer further into the realm of hints: “In fact I don’t think I’ll be dating any men.”

        The comment makes sense to Jack because, as he sees it, “Dating is way hard,” diving back into his own world. He brings up Cassie, the “nice girl” he used to date, expressing his frustrations that she still won’t go out with him. Clearly Linda has lost the connection once more with her son due to his self-centeredness.

        Laughing, she turns back into the role of knowledgeable mother, suggesting to Jack that she “needs to explain some things” to him. For his part, he plays the petulant son, saying he knows all about the birds and the bees. She takes an abstract route: “Love is complicated, you know?” He continues punching his controls for the game he is playing, seemingly oblivious to her commentary that “as you get older and more experienced, things change….” Gradually she moves the conversation into a more pop-psych context, suggesting that before you know it “you’ve evolved into a more multi-faceted person.” Even she wonders whether he’s following her, as he stabs at his game control panel.

       “Let’s say hypothetically that you know someone really well. A woman. And she’s decided that she’s attracted to women.”

       That grabs his attention, as he turns to her, realizing that she’s talking about gays, about lesbians. Hilariously, he shifts even that odd piece of motherly conversation back to himself, suddenly realizing, so he imagines, that Cassie is a lesbian and that is the reason she refuses to go out with him. He rises to immediately call his friend Sam.

       She seems to have lost him entirely this time, but always the patient mother, tries entering the moated castle of his self-centrism through another door, “So, how are you doing in Miss Cromwell’s class? Are you liking her more?”

       He waffles a bit before describing her as a “turd,” his mother suddenly turning into the corrective oversea, demanding he not call “Alice” by that name, hinting indeed that she now knows Miss Cromwell in a personal way than he might have previously thought.

       Finally, she admits that she has indeed gotten to know Alice, and suddenly mid-sentence she interrupts so suggest that she knows it’s not fair to spring this one him “before Alice comes over,” he still not quite comprehending, presuming that she’s coming over on “school business” and wondering why she didn’t “just call.” He walks off, imagining that his mother now knows something about him that we and she do not.

      But Linda responds even more strangely to his way of thinking by tossing out, “Well fine, will just talk about over dinner.” He has disappeared for a second off the screen, but now in a clever cinematographical move comes leaping back into the frame, “Dinner? Why is Cromwell coming over for dinner?”

      Now simply justifying the visit, his mother suggests that Alice has come to be a big part of her personal life….Jack interrupting with wonderment about that phrase. She tries again, adding “You know. The romantic side?”

      Finally, she has broken through to Jack, as the truth dawns upon him, the bits and pieces of their previous conversation linking up to make sense. And so might it end, the son having to come to terms with his mother’s new recognition of her sexuality and the focus of her love.

      But in a clever turn, Jack too must now confess, creating a further surprise. “I was at school…and they I wasn’t. I got dismissed. The same thing as….expelled.”

      Linda is shocked, confused why the school hasn’t called. And suddenly she grows curious as to why he was expelled. She checks her cellphone; Alice is almost there.

      “What did you do, Jack?”

      He begins to explain that he was talking in the cafeteria just like everyone else, but then the teacher singled him out….

      The doorbell rings, it’s Alice.

      As she goes to the door, he calls out, “Mom. I called your girlfriend a ‘cunt.’”

      So ends this mother-son series of comic, but quite serious nonetheless, confessions, all rather drolly presented in a cleverly written script and a nicely, if rather conventionally, filmed work.

      Although this work was viewed at some gay festivals, it’s a pity it hasn’t been more universally seen, since it so adroitly demonstrates the complexities of contemporary LGBTQ sexuality. The intelligent script by Trilby Beresford probably explains also why noted filmmaker Bruce Beresford was the executive producer of this movie.

 

Los Angeles, August 16, 2022

Reprinted from World Cinema Review (August 2022).

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