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Mark Abramowitz | Meet Up / 2017

the unknown

by Douglas Messerli

 

Mark Abramowitz (screenwriter, based on a story by Dan O’Connor, and director) Meet Up / 2017 [26 minutes]

 

It’s a young gay man’s worst nightmare, but it happens over and again, when he picks up a good-looking guy to discover himself before the end of the evening in true danger. One imagines that one learns through such experiences, if he survives, but gay men are easy prey for those with hate and other agendas on their minds, and it happens—as it has to me—more than once in a world that involves late hours, drugs, risk-taking, and unquenched desire.

     In this story the “prey” is a seemingly nice boy, the son of a judge, Miles (Kevin Necciai) who has planned to spend the evening with a regular or Grindr date, who doesn’t show up. As he waits at the bar, he’s cute enough to even attract the attention of the bartender who appears ready to jump into bed with him immediately if he’d let him.


     As he readies to go home, a handsome young man approaches him for a light—a time worn ruse, but successful nonetheless when you have the looks of Tyler (Jordan Sangalang), who quickly establishes that he’s ready to share some good weed with him if he’ll only drive him the local drive-in grocery for some papers to roll, and then to the guy who keeps his stash, a man named Chris, who he calls “Cash man.”

      The late evening (it’s now 1:00) begins in true fashion when naturally Chris isn’t home and they are met only by his understandably indignant mother, who’s not about to let them in, as Tyler insists, to look around the place for where her son has hidden his dope.

    A shrewd individual would have already perceived that there is a desperation about Tyler that suggests a deeper reason for his search, namely that he’s into far more serious stuff. But it takes the somewhat naïve Miles another late-night visit to what is clearly a serious dope house, with a doped-up girl in charge who’s not about to hand over more dope to Tyler when he already owes her more than $500.

     Miles thinks he might resolve the situation by purchasing a $40.00 bag of marijuana. But before they even reach the car again, Tyler declares he has to get back to his bag, even though Miles shouts out that it’s in the car.


      We don’t quite know what happens in the few moments that Tyler is alone again with the drug dealers, but we do see blood being washed off his hands, and we can suspect there’s been a murder to go with it, particularly since, when Miles finds him again, he has some much stronger “stuff.”

       Miles now recognizes it’s time to end the farce, but it has already gone too far, and when Miles tries to finish off the evening, rejecting the heroin or whatever drug Tyler now wants him to share, Tyler goes “ballistic,” suggesting he “thinks he’s better” than him and offering him his cock if only to pull Miles further into the vortex into which he’s already spinning. But it is clearly now a client / customer relationship of which Miles wants no part. And when he demands Tyler get out the car immediately, it sets himself up for the tortures we (and he perhaps) feared from the very begging: a knife at his throat, he himself being pulled from the car, and a thorough beating, stopping, and kicking which as the dope kicks in might easily have ended in his death if in one lucky moment Miles had not found a large club of wood to knock his assailant to the ground and run off, pulling away in the car as he is chased by Tyler, begging him to just be friends again.


      Even for Miles there will never probably be such an unknown “friend” in his life again, as his former date texts that he’s sorry he couldn’t make it that night. It’s the kind of night that makes a gay man wonder if he ever wants to meet up with unknown again; but then how to find someone given the statistics for sex, let alone for possible love? These are, terrifyingly, the rules of the game.

 

Los Angeles, September 20, 2022 | Reprinted from World Cinema Review (September 2022).

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