an early meeting of love and dove
by
Douglas Messerli
Sai
Kiran K(odcherwar) (screenwriter and director) Come Out / 2022 [13
minutes]
In
this comedy of coincidence from India, a young closeted gay man has been
partying and drinking heavily at his friend Ritesh’s apartment.
The
young man (Arhaan) awakens, hung over, in the filthy, food and bottle-strewn
apartment, the sound of his cellphone signaling him; the phone notifies him
that he has an important appointment this very morning with a man with whom he’s
been texting for some time now, nicknamed “Love,” who, himself long closeted,
he perceives might be the man of his dreams and just possibly a way to “come
out.”
He quickly calls Ritesh, explaining that
he will lock up the apartment and bring him his keys at the office later in the
day, and once he has washed his face, found his shoes, and other articles, he
is ready to escape.
Frustrated, he attempts to query the slow-moving
and unresponsive wreck as he (Vamshidhar Goud) enters the bathroom, pees, and
faces himself in the mirror, finally asking if the hurried other man is also a
friend of Ritesh.
Busy with his cellphone, checking on possible
messages from his brunch date, he at first doesn’t respond; but finally asked
if the two of them had met the night before, the first young man suggests that
they didn’t meet, that he drank separately. But again checking his phone he
discovers that he is now running late and calls into the bathroom: “Make it
fast. I have to go to Madhapur urgently.”
The second man vaguely recalls that he
also has to go to Madhapur and insists that the other drive him there, since he
also has an appointment in Madhapur.
Slowly re-tracing his steps, he finally
finds it in a nearby bed. But upon checking his messages, he realizes that appointment
is private, and suggests that we will get an Ola (India’s largest ride-hailing
system consisting of autos, attached rickshaws or bike taxis) or Uber.
Now, truly angry for having waiting all
this time, the first young man insists he will take the other to Madhapur. But
by this time both are madly on their phones attempting to explain to their
appointments why they are late and reassure them that they will be there soon.
In doing so, however, they note that as each of them texts, the other’s
cellphone beeps with the message.
While the first is attempting to contact
his “Love,” the second is busy reassuring his “Dove” that he will soon be
there.
After several of these observed beeps, they each try out a further
message, reconfirming, that they are, in fact, “Love and Dove.”
They look up at one another and smile, as
the first young man switches on the music, the two ready to dance among the
chaos of the night before in which they slept near one another without having
yet met.
If the coincidence of it all seems a bit
far-fetched, I would remind readers that in the gay world, not nearly as vast as
the heterosexual one, there are far more coincidences possible. And gay men and
women often each serve as a kind of network of interrelating connections. Often
one finds one living in a parallel universe, where mutual friends unexpectedly
meet up. And there is something always charming in the recognition that we share
a smaller and more communal world.
The only question left to ask is, does
this mean Ritesh is gay?
Los
Angeles, May 31, 2026 |
Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (May 2026).




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