Sunday, May 24, 2026

Jack Shea | "Once a Friend" from the series The Jeffersons / 1977 [TV episode]

man on the run

by Douglas Messerli

 

Michael S. Baser and Kim Weiskopf (writers), Jack Shea (director) Once a Friend from the series The Jeffersons / 1977 [TV episode]

 

Just as the Norman Lear series All in the Family, his series The Jeffersons, featuring Isabel Sanford and Sherman Hemsley—who used to be the neighbors of Archie Bunker, but who moved “on up,” while he remained stationary—covered a great many controversial topics new to the US popular TV medium.

    One of the most interestingly controversial subjects of the series appeared on the October 1, 1977 episode (Season 4, Episode3), in which George Jefferson gets a note through the family maid Florence Johnston (Marla Gibbs) that Edie Stokes is in town and wants to meet George at a local hotel.



   Louise, George’s wife is naturally suspicious; might her husband be having an affair? George certainly doesn’t know any Edie Stokes until he realizes that it might be his old-time Navy friend Eddie Stokes who is playing another “gottcha” joke on him, which the two of them engaged throughout their Navy years, consisting of practical jokes as simple as buckets of water being poured over the heads of people entering the camp doorways, to George’s revenge of getting Eddie a tattoo of the camp commander’s wife.

    Eddie and he did everything together. “Shoot, he slept on top of me for two years!” Louise’s response: “That must have been uncomfortable.” Of course, he is talking about bunk beds in the Navy, where Eddie was his closest and dearest friend.

    And he runs off immediately to visit Eddie in the Marquee Hotel, with Louise worried about what is going on.

    Eddie (Veronica Redd) appears at the door as a lovely female, while George challenges the real Eddie to come out of the closet, which, obviously, brings about Edie’s riposte that he is most definitely out of the closet.

   George still can’t comprehend. Is he gay?

   No, Edie, explains calmly, she is not gay. Good, because George couldn’t deal with that, as he one by one peels the onion of his true homophobic bigotry.

   Soon after comes the next layer of the prejudice, surely, George’s friend is not one of those men who love dressing up as a woman. “Travestites?” responds Edie.



    Edie assures him that she is not at all transsexual, and again, just for a moment George is relieved, surely not being able to tolerate such “weirdo” behavior from even an old friend.

    Still convinced it is a “gottcha” joke, George tries to make his way into the closet to hand his old friend Eddie a pair of pants only to discover an entire closet of dresses.

    Finally, in a sincere and intelligent discussion of gender dysphoria, explaining that she has always felt uncomfortable about pretending to be a man, yes, even in the Navy. George’s cheap comeback is that he wished he had told him given that he had daily undressed in front of him. It is finally, not a very funny joke, nor is the canned laughter that keeps fueling George’s inane comebacks to the truly serious conversation that is the heart of this moment on TV.

    Edie, begging George to address her by her new name, explains that she has had to give up most of her “old” friends and has found new ones, and developed a new life with which she has found great happiness. But she hopes, she explains, that one of her oldest and deepest friends might remain so.

    Defeated, George hints that it might be possible, but the moment she moves forward to show her appreciation and to encourage him to join her in the promised drink, he quite literally curls up in disgust, quickly trying to find his exit.

    He hurries out of the room demanding ghostly individuals to hold the elevator, as the beautiful transgender woman sadly stares out in the horror of his vacuum: “Yeh, George. You take care of yourself.”



    If she has found herself and come to enjoy her new identity, George, much like Archie Bunker, is most unhappy in the world of such flux and change.

    Yes, Archie once met a serious transgender figure in his taxi. But this is a far more serious presentation of the issue, and beyond that this presented US audiences with a black transgender woman, who was so beautiful that we can’t even imagine her as a sailor boy.

   But confusion persists, as Louise (“Weezie” as he calls her) calls the hotel to find out if there is actually an Eddie Stokes registered there. She discovers, obviously that the guest’s name is Edith (Edie) Stokes, which clearly means to her that George has been lying to her.

     Since Louise now threatens to kick him out of the apartment for the night, George desperately attempts to find a solution, calling to enlist his cleaning establishment employee Leroy to pose in drag as Edie.

     But Louise, always far cleverer than George, immediately perceives the hoax, and gets even more insulted until Edie actually visits, upon the desperate insistence of George, their apartment.

     Louise is still far from convince until Edie, talking about their Navy days together mentions the nickname “Weezie,” as George called her in his letters, and mentions Louise’s own terms of endearment: “fuzzy wuzzy, teddy bear.”

     As punishment for George’s inability to face the truth, the former practical joker lures George into the bathroom proclaiming her fear of a rat, dumping a bucket of water on him. We might hope that George, now wet and enraged will come to his senses, but at the very least we perceive he now sees that the old Eddie is in Edie’s inner being, and despite his fears, can still remain a friend.

     If this still remains a slightly crude representation of the transgender experience, despite the truly enlightened description that Edie describes about her own experience as a male in a society in which she painfully not in sync, one has only to realize that Rainer Werner Fassbiner’s great exploration of the transgender experience, In einen Jahr mit 13 Monden (In a Year with 13 Moons), did not appear until a year later. Norman Lear, a purveyor of popular US entertainment, was ahead of even the avant-garde European filmmakers.

 

Los Angeles, May 24, 2026

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (May 2026).

 

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