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Olivier Peyon | Arrête avec tes mensonges (Lie with Me) / 2022

father and son

by Douglas Messerli

 

Olivier Peyon, Vincent Poymiro, Arthur Cahn, and Cécilia Rouaud (screenplay, based on the fiction by Philippe Besson), Olivier Peyon (director) Arrête avec tes mensonges (Lie with Me) / 2022

 

While the English-language title of Olivier Peyon’s Lie with Me sounds a bit like it’s asking its central characters to cuddle up, the original Arrête avec tes mensonges, “Stop with your Lies” gets more fully to the heart of the matter. One could hardly blame the elderly Stéphane Belcourt (Guillaume de Tonquédec), however, having returned reluctantly to his renowned hometown of Cognac after 35 years, if he might wish to cuddle up with the young Lucas Andrieu (Victor Belmondo) who looks disconcertingly, at moments, like his father, Thomas (Julien de Saint-Jean), Stéphane’s childhood lover, the actor at certain angles reminding one of his grandfather, Jean-Paul.


     Stéphane can’t quite comprehend why he was invited as the celebrity guest to the annual gathering of cognac lovers, particularly since he hated visiting the facility as a child and does not drink; but he has dutifully written a short story and is almost willing to bear with the overwhelming memories, good and bad, of growing up in the beautifully landscaped but deadly conservative world he knew as a boy of 17. He’s even committed to presenting the closing speech to the event, if he can ever find the time to write it and if the overwhelming memories that threaten to devour him can stop long enough so that he can print out some drivel about the beautiful countryside and its people.

      What he hasn’t wanted to reckon with is just how much his own life has been influenced by the place and how, despite having a family that encouraged him to leave that world and make his way as a noted author in Paris, he still owes nearly everything to the region and his young lover Thomas, a farmer’s son whose family were not about to let him leave the grape producing estate and create a new life.


       Stéphane is attracted to or, at least, intrigued by the young Lucas, who serves the cognac company as their San Francisco liaison and spends much of his time in the film acting as tour guide for a group of Americans who have evidently paid plenty to be drowned in cognac and other mixed cocktails before toured taken into the dank cellars to be lectured on the ancient casks.

      Almost immediately after arriving, Stéphane discovers that the young Lucas is his dead lover’s son, and from that moment on he attempts to spend every free moment in the company of the handsome young man, who seems just as interested in Stéphane for possibly providing more insights into a father who having recently died, had refused to discuss his private life, remaining aloof from his own family, ending in his wife leaving for Spain and his son feeling that he had never come to really know his father.


      Although Lucas shows up to Stéphane’s reading at the village bookstore, he claims to never have actually read the books and merely seems to want several autographs for his tourist friends.  Meanwhile Stéphane is guided through his other duties as the celebrity guest by chaperone Gaëlle Flamand (Guilaine Londez), but given the writer’s sudden interest in the company tour guide and his increasing outpouring of childhood memories the story suggests that her best efforts may simply fall apart.

      Much of the first half of the film, indeed, shifts back and forth in scenes between Lucas’ father at 17 with Stéphane as a young man (performed by Jérémy Gillet)—as the older Belcourt relives the absolute joy of being suddenly chosen by Thomas to have sex and the frustration that he encounters when they are not alone together and the popular Thomas pretends a heterosexual life to all others—and the older man’s attempts to get closer to Thomas’ son.

   We witness crucial scenes in Stéphane and Thomas’ childhood relationship. When the young Stéphane attempts to visit him on his farm, for example, Thomas demands he leave immediately for fear of their being seen together. The boy tries to explain to his friend that he will someday be taking over the farm and it will not do at all to be known throughout the community as a homosexual. Yet soon after, he publicly picks him up on his motorbike.


      Thomas realizes, unlike his young lover, the socio-economic, religious, and political reasons why their deep love cannot be shared with others in the Cognac region, leaving Stéphane desperately in love with someone with whom could never be convinced to join him in his new life. For much of the rest of Stéphane’s adult life he has rewritten his childhood love story, sometimes changing the characters to heterosexuals, and other times transforming his childhood self to an unsatisfied woman; but more recently he has found himself unable to move forward, all of his other adult gay relationships also having failed.

      But even more problematic is the older Belcourt’s fascination with Lucas. Things grow even more complex for organizer Gaëlle—herself, it is hinted, being a lesbian who having grown up in Cognac has left only to return home, forcing the community to accept her on her own terms. When Stéphane overhears the information that Lucas has in fact long been a huge fan of his fiction and was the one who recommended him to the head of the company to invite him back as a celebrity guest, things grow even more complex.


    Suddenly growing angry for Lucas’ lies, and now realizing that there is a great deal more to understand about the boy’s interest in the older man—particularly after Lucas takes him off to his local swimming hole, where his father had long ago also taken the young Stéphane for some of their sexual rendezvouses. The two begin to openly fight, forcing Gaëlle to step in and literally bring about a temporary truce.

      Eventually, Lucas reveals that his father’s death was suicide, an event that occurred after a visit to his secret adult lover, a farmer in a nearby region; moreover, he learns that his father Thomas, had spoken reverently of Stéphane and his writing all throughout his life, but never permitted Lucas him to read the books, while carefully displaying them in his library, contending they were adult material.

      While attending university, Lucas finally read the books, making the connections, and verifying his suspicious about his father through his private belongings uncovered after his death, which included a good-bye letter from the young Stéphane.

      Taking him back to the family farm, Lucas reveals to Stéphane the world from which his childhood lover believed he could never escape, and realizes that Thomas’ love, nonetheless, had flourished even in his absence, just as had for Thomas. The lies they both maintained created “closed off” words of suffering and nostalgia for them and, in Thomas’ case, even for his family.


     Realizing how both men have lived through their lies and mistaken notions of reality, Stéphane turns his Testimonial speech from yet another rambling lie about the beauties of the region into an extemporaneous speech about how his friend, although not leaving a suicide note, had invited his own intelligent son to figure out the riddle of his life, knowing that he would read Belcourt’s books and eventually come upon the saved artifacts revealing their childhood lives. Truth has finally prevailed after all, and the reasons, given Thomas’ generational viewpoint, are made evident. His love for Stéphane had been maintained in secret just as Stéphane’s love for Thomas had been kept mysteriously alive only through his coded fictions.

       I am, however, not truly convinced by his, once more vaguely concealed references. Are the attendees aware of how personal his comments truly are, and if so, can they be fully moved by something they know truly nothing about. The speech seems, if nothing else, a kind a drunken embarrassment for a writer finally admitting the reasons for his sudden inability to go on writing.

       All the viewer of this film can say of their behavior, alas, is “what a waste!.” All those empty years lived out with the ridiculous notions of what the community believed and might say, even after things had changed, when someone like Gaëlle could return and stubbornly retain her identity.

      The reviewer for L'Indépendant, Oisin McGilloway, however, had a far more positive reaction to the film’s ending:

      “By the end, however, all is resolved: Stéphane and Lucas get over their grief together, culminating in a speech that the former gives at a dinner, revealing all to his friends and adoring fans. What is a complicated, emotional affair, brought to life by Peyon’s weaving of the past and the present with intimate moments that connect Stéphane to his past, is brought to a satisfying finale, where the pair are able to accept their loss.”

      As fucked up as his life has been, nothing has been hinted in this movie about Lucas being gay. We simply don’t know anything about his sexuality. He lives, however, in San Francisco and has become obsessed with Belcourt’s fictions and his father’s private life. Nowhere in this work does he demonstrate any interest in a woman. Perhaps he needed the truth simply so that he might better understand the way life was in a world which believed in a love that could be openly spoken. But then, we have to wonder, why was the director Olivier Peyon been terribly discreet about Lucas’ love-life? Let’s hope that he has someone with whom to toast cognac glasses and to cuddle up to in his pricey North Beach studio apartment.

 

Los Angeles, October 26, 2023

Reprinted from My Queer Cinema blog (October 2023).

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